Wednesday, 22 October 2008

Whateva Men

Pardon my saying, but women can just all be the same, in a manner of speaking. If I tell you that truthfully, as I speak, I can stay faithful to that one woman, I tell a lie.

Let it not be said however that I am embracing evil, no I am not, I am only facing my reality, as it may seem. The best I can say that I will stick my head out and try not to cheat.

I wish I felt differently but I don’t. I might, when I have the time to, tell you all about this, but I earnestly doubt if that will ever happen. Most likely, tomorrow I will feel different but this is how I feel today.

By the way, my birthday comes up soon; (yes, I’m a real Scorpio, unlike Queen, my blog crush) I should be back in naija then, hopefully. And I’m gonna be doing lots of champagne with close friends. Guys only.

Cheers everyone

48 comments:

Tyger said...

DID YOU DELETE MY FIRST?

AHW SHIT!

RETURN IT ASAP

Okay why do you want to believe you cant be faithful to a woman just cos once in a while she is predictable?

who is the girl messing you up and making you feel and think these things?

why do some girls have to make it tough for the rest of us?

I was just going to step to you na!

bArOquE said...

yes, your 1st to 5th...dont esp subscribe to the conjestion...so very sorry...but i love you all the same...

i dont know, twas just a thought that was crossing & decided to chill a while in my mind...no particular messing up, but reality just playing me rough...

please step to me boo...i dey for you

bumight said...

ok, baroque what is the real problem? cos I read a lot of contradictions in this post...

bArOquE said...

what is contradicting you, Bumight?

Vera Ezimora said...

Well, at least you're being honest. It'd be pointless for you (and your partner) if you pretend to be someone you are not. It's great that you are accepting reality. U go boy!!

miz-cynic said...

Baroque baroque baroque.jst wen i was jumping dat ur back,u had 2 drop dis melancholic s..T.na wa 4 u o.

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AlooFar said...

bArOqUe, take it easy o!

... and happy b'day in advance!

doll said...

am wondering y u think u cant be faithful to one woman

FFF said...

u r a scorpio! wow. MM is a scorpio & i know they r d faithful type - or so d horoscope said.

my dear, i've learn in dis world dat fidelity is a personal choice & shouldn't be conditional. like, if i meet a good woman, den i'll faithful. or, if i meet a faithful woman, den i'll faithful. being faithful is something u do 4 urself. however, if u find urself wit a partner who cheats, chosing to tow their line isn't d solution. i'd rather u walked away 4rm dat relationship dan lower ur own standard. pele sha. it's well. just take it easy.

happy birthday in advance.

FFF said...

infidelity has its consequences, i hope u r aware of this

Buttercup said...

Im guessin u've been screwed over more than once for u to have this particular mindset...it might be pointless to say this but i'ma say it anyway, NOT ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME.

Happy birthday in advance! When exactly is it?

LusciousRon said...

You mean I will not get an invite to the bash? that is cruel o!

Wetin women do again o?

bumight said...

If I tell you that truthfully, as I speak, I can stay faithful to that one woman, I tell a lie.....


The best I can say that I will stick my head out and try not to cheat

that's the contradiction i saw.


Happy Birthday in advance!

Rita said...

Maybe if you say the complete story, the women can help out...

Happy Birthday in advance...why Guys only?

Temite said...

Is fidelity really that important?

Queen of My Castle said...

So...you're a sexy Scorpio, huh? That means you're quite...

Naapali said...

I read this, have nothing to say.

Shubby Doo said...

a Scorpion man...i wonder if you subscribe to the babylonian myth...hmmm...

also wonder if you and i have the same birthday?...

rethots said...

Hmmm, so we scopions are many on blogsville? hope you are 30th.............

"I can stay faithful to that one woman, I tell a lie." Well said but, with a conscious effort (not necessarily easy, i daresay) yes you can say that without it being a lie.

Zena said...

Happy Birthday IN aDVANCE

Whatevers bothering you, hopefully you come back and expand

have a good one

Iwalewa McDaniels said...

at least u're honest.

Another October birthday? na wa o. I wonder y there r so many. Happy birthday in advance.

NigerianDramaQueen said...

So I don't get an invite?!
Triste! Tres triste!

ablackjamesbond said...

Baroque...Happy birthday man. Let me know where and when in naija. Hope say na Lagos o.

theicequeen said...

weyull...theres noting like being honest with yourself, and working with who you really are..it's a step to admit we are a way that is not "encouraged" by society..oh well..i feel you, i have those moments in which i asy certain things too, and it doesn't really ensure that i have the same sentiments the next day...

how've you been?

Ms Sula said...

This reads more like the cry of a broken heart than something else...

Are you trying to convince yourself that you are "bad"?

Happy b*day in advance...

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

mmmmmmmmm I see you want to get all the females up in here descending on you right?....Miss DM is okay with guys who cheat as long as they play all fair and square and are okay with thier women cheating as well....normally this is not the case, men who cheat are insecure, attention seeking hypocritical so and so's who would kill thier women if they so much as looked at another man

SPEECHgirl Bucknor said...

its ok
as long as wats good for the goose...

Naija Idol said...

Happy Birthday hun.

Allied said...

wich kind guys only party be dat? comot! i am coming by force, by fire!

Men, u can be mushy sometimes but u do it faintly

ebonyhyde said...

i disagree with d 'u cant b faithful to one woman' line cos i really dont see wat d oda woman has dat d one u hav dose'nt.

ebonyhyde said...

i disagree with d 'u cant b faithful to one woman' line cos i really dont see wat d oda woman has dat d one u hav dose'nt.

Tyger said...

dear blog boo,

happy birthday

you got an award on my blog, do check it out

hope you doing great

holla out to your person

bArOquE said...

@vera, its not pretense or anything, I’m just saying. afterall if I was gonna cheat, she’d never know

@miz-cynic, u can stil jump...in fact, this is the time...*raises one eye brow*

@aloofar, thanks oh...i’ll try

@doll, in a few words, I’ll say like this...’I’ve had better’

@FFF, i can be the faithful to death kind but, when I ever I look at what I might be leaving behind, it in some ways beats where I might be going to...& its not conditional...I’m gonna try not to cheat (& I’m talking about when I get married btw)

@FFF, you’re not sure, what consequences? enlighten me

@buttercup, yes I have been, but this mindset is not from the possibility of being screwed over again...it’s about satisfaction

...Is someone getting the picture...???

bArOquE said...

@luciousRon, you know, women just know how to go & do it...& sorry missed all the champagne

@bumight, I dey talk the thing as e do me...but I’m saying I’ll try not to yield...don’t confooze!...& thanks a lot

@rita, thanks for the birthday wish...'twas guys only, so that the long thing wont be a strong thing

@temite, fascinating question! Is it?

@QOMC, my very sweetie, I am quite what? don’t even get me any more excited than I already am about 4 the queen...ok...*winks*

@dr.naaps, I understand...you’re sure it will pass huh?

@shubbydoo, when is/was your birthday?

@rethots, it’s a scorpio something...*raises hands in air*...’m not 30th, but close

@zena, thanks, but I doubt that...you cool?

@Iwalewa Michaels, yes oh...October’s the coolest month to be born in...

@NDQ, Non, ma Cherie...our’s is a one on one...anywhere...xxx

bArOquE said...

@black007, I dey naija back oh...the bash was a PH thang...the champagne worked...even got vomit in my backseat (not mine of course)

@theicequeen, feels good to know that these things are human afterall...I’ve been good, you?

@msSula, no broken heart oh, I’m trying to do the exact opposite my guy...thanks for the birthday wish...no gift?

@missdefmaybe, I’m not man enough for all the women on blogsville...I neva wan die yet...btw where's Afrobabe...you know you are right on point with the characteristics of cheating men...& then very wrong in a very beautiful way...my dear look through the glass & not over it

@speechbabesmthn, its good for the goose too oh...follow my lead or create your own

@naijaidol, thanks sweetie...I’m cool

@allied, anything for you...abeg show eh...make I book room? (& please stop making me blush)

@ebonyhyde,...ivoryjekyll nko?...my point, the women all have the same thing...same shit different nyash

@tyger, sugar, I dey with you on that one...holla me

FFF said...

my dear, if not 4 anything, it's way cheaper to be faithful

rethots said...

Where art thou???

Jaja said...

Happy Birthday man!

My broda wetin dem don do you? yarn to me...

Queen of My Castle said...

Hola Papi,

Donde estan?

Where are you?

I miss ya!

Smaragd said...

guys only? lotsa champagne?

hmm, sounds like it's going to be a gay thang! especially now that u are so not into women...lol, if u ask nicely, i could come and dance for u, and i'll bring bumight along, she's my fellow stripper.

happy birthday in advance/arrears Mr. Metrosexual.

bArOquE said...

@FFF, i so believe that, that's why i'm most likely sleeping alone tonight...no kidding

@rethotz, found me yet?

@Jaja, my south south bros, i shall find your contact details & seek your side of this story privately

@QOMC, i miss u more, mi dulce bebé...i can be anywhere you want me...beneath, i don't mind, at all

@smargd, never felt that much testosterone, & it was good...no need for rubber my sweet...as raw as it was...of cuz, some mistaken champagne cocktails left my car smelling of puke, not from me oh...LOL...you & Bumtight missed the party...however, can i get a private one, i can pay


...i love you all...

Queen of My Castle said...

*Ella sonrió*

guerreiranigeriana said...

...happy birthday o!!!!!...long time o!...this your story...i'm very curious what it is in response to...

dat one okrika girl...xyz said...

Im going to go on a limb and say your birthday probably passed, I dont follow the signs so i dont know when Scorpio would be but either way. Happy Birthday....not sure what you men by only guys sha...do elaborate.

bArOquE said...

@QOMC...sonríe de nuevo

@gnaija, this curiosity that you operate with from afar off...why you abandon me like this?

@1okrikababe, yes it's past...thanks...& what dont you understand by guys only? means not babes allowed...LOL

Standtall said...

Thot I have left my comment here b4. Hope u wont mind if your woman chose not to be faithful to you as well. It takes two to tango

Why haven't u updated? I responded to your comment on Uzoma's case

AnyaPosh said...

Scorpio here!!!!

In the word of Beyonce, "...he was freaky like a scorpio, the way he handled meee...."